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Thomas L Neilan & Sons

12 Ocean Avenue · New London, CT 06320

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Veteran Services

From the home's own description

“Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Homes provides comprehensive services for honoring veterans, ensuring eligible individuals receive traditional military honors such as the folding and presentation of the American flag, the playing of Taps, and a three-volley rifle salute. They assist families with navigating veteran benefits, including obtaining Presidential Memorial Certificates, arranging for headstones or markers, securing memorial plots, and understanding burial expense reimbursements through the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (VA). Eligibility is verified by the veteran’s DD-214 or discharge papers.”

Veteran services at Thomas L Neilan & Sons

Thomas L Neilan & Sons in New London, CT supports veteran families with military funeral arrangements. In its own description, the home mentions military funeral honors, flag presentation, VA benefits paperwork, and government headstones. Published pricing lists $3,820 for basic burial and $3,660 for direct cremation. Veterans may qualify for county or federal allowances toward these costs. On Google it averages 4.0 stars across 6 reviews.

The home lists these veteran-related services: memorial services, burial services, cremation services, and honoring veterans. Ask the director which of them they arrange directly.

The nearest veterans cemetery that isn't listed as closed is Connecticut State Veterans Cemetery in CT, about 30 miles from Thomas L Neilan & Sons. For a burial in a VA national cemetery, the funeral home or the family calls the National Cemetery Scheduling Office at 800-535-1117.

We list about 304 funeral homes in Connecticut. Only some of them name military funeral honors or VA benefits help among their services.

Frequently asked questions

Does Thomas L Neilan & Sons publish funeral prices?

Thomas L Neilan & Sons has not posted a full price list online. Under the FTC Funeral Rule it must provide itemized pricing on request, so call (860) 443-1871 and ask how VA burial benefits apply.

Where is Thomas L Neilan & Sons located, and can it coordinate a veterans cemetery burial?

Thomas L Neilan & Sons is located at 12 Ocean Avenue in New London, CT. You can reach the home at (860) 443-1871. Staff can coordinate burial with nearby VA national and state veterans cemeteries.

What services does Thomas L Neilan & Sons offer veteran families?

Thomas L Neilan & Sons provides memorial services, burial services, cremation services, merchandise & personalization, honoring veterans, and can arrange military funeral honors for eligible veterans.

Does Thomas L Neilan & Sons help veterans with VA burial benefits?

In its own description of its veteran services, Thomas L Neilan & Sons mentions military funeral honors, flag presentation, VA benefits paperwork, and government headstones. Ask the home how VA burial benefits apply to your family.

How do families rate Thomas L Neilan & Sons?

Thomas L Neilan & Sons holds a 4.0-star rating across 6 Google reviews from local families and veterans.

What sets Thomas L Neilan & Sons apart

  • Multi-generational family ownership and operation since 1923.
  • Dedicated monument company, Ocean Monuments, offering personalized design and installation of memorials.
  • Comprehensive veteran services, including assistance with military honors and VA benefits.
  • Extensive grief support resources, including partnerships with national organizations and a '365 Days of Healing' email program.
  • Ability to create personalized 'Life Tribute Videos' and custom stationery for services.

Military and veteran services listed

★Memorial Services
★Honoring Veterans

Burial and cremation services

Burial

  • · Burial Services

Cremation

  • · Cremation Services

On-site facilities

· New London Location
· East Lyme Location

Affiliations and specialties

Specialties

  • · Honoring Veterans

What families have said

Up to five Google reviews of Thomas L Neilan & Sons, shown as written. Reviews that mention veterans, military service, honors, a flag or a cemetery come first, then the highest-rated.

“Extremely compassionate, professional, and dedicated -- a calming force when people are feeling their most vulnerable. My mother's service was handled perfectly at every stage. Highly recommended.”
Darcie Nicole★★★★★a year agoVet-related
“Our family has used Neilans Funeral Parlour for years and are always impressed with their professionalism and empathy. They really help you through a difficult time. Note: they have a phamplet which walks you through the readings, hymns, etc. I highly recommend obtaining this booklet prior to any anticipated death or een just to have filled out ahead of time and stored with your will. Thank you and your staff, Chris.”
Diane Secchiaroli★★★★★3 years ago
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Mike O.★★★★★7 years ago
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G B★★★★★7 years ago
“It seems as though as soon as they get their payment they didn't care about the greiving family. They were aloof, and seemed to be in a hurry.”
C Wright★★★★★3 months ago

How to request military funeral honors

By law (10 U.S.C. § 1491), an eligible veteran's funeral can include, on request, an honors detail of at least two service members who fold and present the U.S. flag to the family and play Taps. The funeral director usually makes the request and will need the veteran's DD214 or other discharge papers.

VA suggests asking at least 48 to 72 hours before the service. More on what honors include and how to request them.