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Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home

48 Grand Street · Niantic, CT 06357

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Veteran services at Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home

Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home is a funeral home in Niantic, CT that accepts veteran families and provides military funeral honors coordination through the Department of Defense honors program.

The nearest VA national cemetery is Connecticut State Veterans Cemetery in CT, approximately 26 miles from Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home. Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home can coordinate transport, scheduling with the cemetery's interment office, and the timing of military honors with the receiving committal shelter.

What families have said

Recent reviews from families who used Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home. Reviews are sourced from Google Places and shown verbatim — we do not edit or filter for sentiment.

My wife was placed in Hospice care and they recommended that I make the funeral arrangements in advance. Pasquale had done the funeral arrangements for my mother 10 years ago. I called Pasquale explained my situation and requested an estimate. After two weeks of waiting for a response I called and spoke to a second individual. The second person assured me that Pasquale would get back to me, but silence. I called Fulton-Theroux Funeral Services and got an immediate response.
don cleary★★★★a year agoVet-related
Mark was amazing. He is patient, caring and attentive to all the details. The last thing I wanted to think about were the arrangements and Mark coordinated everything we discussed and more. Thank you Mark for making the hardest time in my life a bit easier. ❤️
Jennifer Scacciaferro★★★★★a year ago
Mark was great and took care of so much. For what can be an overwhelming time, he made it so manageable and smooth. Thank you.
Oshi River★★★★★3 years ago
Neilan took care of my mother and recently my father as well. I could not have asked for a more professional handling, of all our affairs.
Mary W. Rice★★★★★5 years ago
Seemed nice enough.
Richard Walton★★★★★3 years ago

EverSettled · After the Veteran Funeral

The veteran's spouse may qualify for VA Dependency & Indemnity Compensation.

DIC is a tax-free monthly benefit for surviving spouses, dependent children, and (in some cases) parents of veterans whose death is service-connected. EverSettled walks veteran families through DIC eligibility, survivor pension, life-insurance claims, probate, and the federal-account paperwork that follows.

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How honors are coordinated

Military funeral honors are guaranteed at no cost for any veteran discharged under conditions other than dishonorable. The funeral home arranges the honors detail by contacting the deceased's last unit or the nearest active-duty installation of the appropriate branch and submitting the DD-214 to verify eligibility.

For requests less than 72 hours from service time, families can call the Department of Defense's expedited honors line at 1-877-MIL-HONR (1-877-645-4667). See the full honors protocol.

After the Service · Veteran Family

Estate settlement is the next chapter for veteran families.

DIC, survivor pension, and VA educational benefits run alongside probate, life-insurance claims, and account retitling. EverSettled guides veteran families through every step at no cost.

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