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Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home

48 Grand St. · Niantic, CT 06357

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Veterans Military Honors

Veteran services at Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home

Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home, located in Niantic, CT, assists those who served and their families. Staff help families secure VA burial benefits, request military honors, and coordinate with national or state veterans cemeteries. Published pricing lists a quoted rate for basic burial and $3,660 for direct cremation. Veterans may qualify for county or federal allowances toward these costs.

Published pricing at Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home: direct cremation from $3,660. That places direct cremation roughly 18% above the Connecticut median ($3,106). If the veteran qualifies for a VA burial allowance, the family claims it with VA Form 21P-530EZ. Ask whether the home will help you file it.

The nearest veterans cemetery that isn't listed as closed is Connecticut State Veterans Cemetery in CT, about 27 miles from Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home. For a burial in a VA national cemetery, the funeral home or the family calls the National Cemetery Scheduling Office at 800-535-1117.

We list about 304 funeral homes in Connecticut. Only some of them name military funeral honors or VA benefits help among their services.

Frequently asked questions

What does a funeral at Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home cost for veteran families?

From its published general price list, direct cremation starts at $3,660. Eligible veterans can offset these costs with a VA burial allowance, and burial in a VA national cemetery is provided at no charge.

Where is Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home located, and can it coordinate a veterans cemetery burial?

Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home is located at 48 Grand St. in Niantic, CT. You can reach the home at (860) 739-6112. Staff can coordinate burial with nearby VA national and state veterans cemeteries.

Does Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home offer cremation for veterans?

Yes. Direct cremation at Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home starts at $3,660. Cremated veterans remain eligible for inurnment in a VA national cemetery.

Does Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home help veterans with VA burial benefits?

Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home assists veteran families with VA burial benefits, military funeral honors, and coordination with national and state veterans cemeteries. Eligible veterans may receive a burial allowance and a free government headstone.

How to request military funeral honors

By law (10 U.S.C. § 1491), an eligible veteran's funeral can include, on request, an honors detail of at least two service members who fold and present the U.S. flag to the family and play Taps. The funeral director usually makes the request and will need the veteran's DD214 or other discharge papers.

VA suggests asking at least 48 to 72 hours before the service. More on what honors include and how to request them.