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Gray Funeral Home

202 West 2Nd Street · Grandfield, OK 73546

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Veterans Military Honors

Veteran Services

From the home's own description

“Lawton Ritter Gray Funeral Home explicitly offers Veteran Funeral Services. Their affiliated Sunset Memorial Gardens also provides veteran memorialization services.”

Veteran services at Gray Funeral Home

Veteran families in Grandfield, OK can turn to Gray Funeral Home for honors and benefit coordination. Directors guide families through VA benefit claims, military honors, and burial at veterans cemeteries. Published pricing lists $5,695 for basic burial and $2,600 for direct cremation. Veterans may qualify for county or federal allowances toward these costs.

The home lists these veteran-related services: cremation services, memorialization options, veteran funeral services, and burial services. Ask the director which of them they arrange directly.

Facilities on site include sunset memorial gardens cemetery.

Published pricing at Gray Funeral Home: direct cremation from $2,600. That places direct cremation roughly 28% above the Oklahoma median ($2,027). If the veteran qualifies for a VA burial allowance, the family claims it with VA Form 21P-530EZ. Ask whether the home will help you file it.

The nearest veterans cemetery that isn't listed as closed is Fort Sill National Cemetery in OK, about 42 miles from Gray Funeral Home. For a burial in a VA national cemetery, the funeral home or the family calls the National Cemetery Scheduling Office at 800-535-1117.

We list about 415 funeral homes in Oklahoma. Only some of them name military funeral honors or VA benefits help among their services.

Frequently asked questions

What does a funeral at Gray Funeral Home cost for veteran families?

From its published general price list, direct cremation starts at $2,600. Eligible veterans can offset these costs with a VA burial allowance, and burial in a VA national cemetery is provided at no charge.

Where is Gray Funeral Home located, and can it coordinate a veterans cemetery burial?

Gray Funeral Home is located at 202 West 2Nd Street in Grandfield, OK. You can reach the home at (580) 479-5258. Staff can coordinate burial with nearby VA national and state veterans cemeteries.

What services does Gray Funeral Home offer veteran families?

Gray Funeral Home provides funeral services, cremation services, memorialization options, immediate need, pre-planning services, and can arrange military funeral honors for eligible veterans.

Does Gray Funeral Home help veterans with VA burial benefits?

Gray Funeral Home assists veteran families with VA burial benefits, military funeral honors, and coordination with national and state veterans cemeteries. Eligible veterans may receive a burial allowance and a free government headstone.

What sets Gray Funeral Home apart

  • Family-owned and operated since 1960, now in its second generation of Gray family leadership.
  • Owns and operates Sunset Memorial Gardens Cemetery and Mausoleums, offering integrated funeral and burial services.
  • Provides live stream services for funeral ceremonies.
  • Offers pre-planning services to document express wishes and ease family burden.
  • Actively involved in the local community, with employees volunteering and collaborating with local organizations, including veterans' groups, hospices, and charities.
  • Website features a language selector for Arabic, Chinese (Traditional), Korean, Spanish, and Vietnamese.

Military and veteran services listed

★Memorialization Options
★Veteran Funeral Services

Burial and cremation services

Burial

  • · Burial Services

Cremation

  • · Cremation Services

On-site facilities

· Sunset Memorial Gardens Cemetery
· Mausoleums

Affiliations and specialties

Industry affiliations

  • · Carriage Services

Specialties

  • · Veteran Funeral Services

Religious traditions and languages

Languages spoken at the home: English, Arabic, Chinese (Traditional), Korean, Spanish, Vietnamese.

How to request military funeral honors

By law (10 U.S.C. § 1491), an eligible veteran's funeral can include, on request, an honors detail of at least two service members who fold and present the U.S. flag to the family and play Taps. The funeral director usually makes the request and will need the veteran's DD214 or other discharge papers.

VA suggests asking at least 48 to 72 hours before the service. More on what honors include and how to request them.