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Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home

4123 4Th Avenue · Brooklyn, NY 11232

Veteran Services

Source: home enrichment record

The funeral home offers specific Veteran Services and honors veterans. Mount Sinai Brooklyn's Hospice Program, a nearby facility, is a Level 5 partner in the We Honor Veterans program.

Veteran services at Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home

For veterans in Brooklyn, NY, Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home coordinates military honors and burial benefits. In their own words: "The funeral home offers specific Veteran Services and honors veterans. Mount Sinai Brooklyn's Hospice Program, a nearby facility, is a Level 5 partner in the We Honor Veterans program." On-site amenities include chapel, suited to flag presentation and honors ceremonies. Published pricing lists $4,225 for basic burial and $1,505 for direct cremation. Veterans may qualify for county or federal allowances toward these costs. Reviewers give it 4.9 stars over 67 write-ups.

Veteran-related services offered include memorial services, veteran services, cremation, traditional burial, green burial, and burial at sea. Each service is coordinated with the family and, where applicable, with the deceased's last unit or branch honor detail.

On-site facilities of note include chapel and memorial video displays. These spaces accommodate full military honors details, family gatherings before and after the service, and the placement of the United States flag during the visitation period.

Published pricing at Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home: direct cremation from $1,505. That places direct cremation roughly 35% below the New York median ($2,300). Veterans who served on active duty for at least 24 months may qualify for VA burial allowance to offset funeral costs — this home accepts assignment of those benefits where eligible.

The nearest VA national cemetery is St. Albans National Cemetery in NY, approximately 13 miles from Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home. Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home can coordinate transport, scheduling with the cemetery's interment office, and the timing of military honors with the receiving committal shelter.

Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home holds a 4.9-star rating from 67 Google reviews, indicating consistent service quality reported by families who have used the home for veteran and non-veteran services alike.

New York has approximately 1,440 licensed funeral homes serving its population, of which a subset specifically lists military funeral honors and VA benefits assistance among their services. Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home is among them.

Frequently asked questions

What does a funeral at Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home cost for veteran families?

From its published general price list, direct cremation starts at $1,505. Eligible veterans can offset these costs with a VA burial allowance, and burial in a VA national cemetery is provided at no charge.

Where is Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home located, and can it coordinate a veterans cemetery burial?

Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home is located at 4123 4Th Avenue in Brooklyn, NY. You can reach the home at (718) 435-3381. Staff can coordinate burial with nearby VA national and state veterans cemeteries.

What services does Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home offer veteran families?

Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home provides immediate need services, service options, memorial services, celebration of life services, veteran services, and can arrange military funeral honors for eligible veterans.

Does Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home help veterans with VA burial benefits?

The funeral home offers specific Veteran Services and honors veterans. Mount Sinai Brooklyn's Hospice Program, a nearby facility, is a Level 5 partner in the We Honor Veterans program.

Which faith traditions does Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home accommodate?

Staff coordinate services for Hindu, Diverse cultural and religious practices families, among others.

How do families rate Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home?

Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home holds a 4.9-star rating across 67 Google reviews from local families and veterans.

What sets Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home apart

  • Operates seven locations across the NYC area, including Brooklyn, Staten Island, New York City, and Queens.
  • Modern facility designed for 'celebrations of life' with brighter lighting, integrated sound systems for music, and multiple TVs for memorial video displays.
  • Offers webcasting services to include remote family and friends in memorial events.
  • Integrates technology for convenience, including virtual appointments, digital paperwork, and online casket/urn selection.
  • Staff, including President Pat J. Marmo, possesses specialized knowledge in diverse religious and cultural funeral practices.
  • Provides comprehensive grief support resources and information on various financial assistance programs.

Military & veteran services offered

Memorial Services
Veteran Services
Permanent Memorial Page

Burial & cremation services

Burial

  • · Traditional Burial
  • · Green Burial
  • · Burial At Sea
  • · Graveside Ceremony

Cremation

  • · Cremation
  • · Urn Selection

On-site facilities

· Modern Facility
· Chapel
· Sound System
· Memorial Video Displays
· Lobby Area
· Webcasting Services

Affiliations & specializations

Specializations

  • · Working with different religions and customs
  • · Serving diverse cultures
  • · Honoring Veterans

Religious traditions & languages

Religious traditions accommodated: Hindu, Diverse cultural and religious practices. Languages spoken at the home: Spanish.

What families have said

Recent reviews from families who used Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home. Reviews are sourced from Google Places and shown verbatim — we do not edit or filter for sentiment.

On behalf of the Pizarro family, we want to express our heartfelt gratitude to the dedicated staff at Schaefer Funeral Home. Your exceptional service went above and beyond, making our mother's final journey a peaceful one. From the moment you retrieved her body from another state to the way you adorned her, she truly looked like a queen. We extend our gratitude to Ashley and Britney for their assistance with the necessary paperwork, the compassionate young lady who accompanied us during the funeral, and the hearse driver. Your kindness and meticulous attention to every detail will forever be etched in our hearts. We deeply appreciate the care and consideration you provided. May God bless you, and once again, thank you from the bottom of our hearts on behalf of the Pizarro family.
marcos pizarro★★★★★2 years agoVet-related
Schaefer has always took care of my family from my dad back in 98 to my father in law in 2015 to recently my mom in January. The whole staff is not only very compassionate, but also very helpful. The owner himself reached out to me when I lost my mother and was so helpful and kind. They all made the process very easy and went the extra mile for my mother They treated my family as their own. And I am so thankful for everyone from the owner to the staff for everything they did for my mother . They treat you as family and are always available to help. No matter the time. Thank you again for being there for my family all these years thank you ! from the Pizarro family
Irene★★★★★9 months ago
It's hard to rate a funeral home when your life is in shambles after your loved one dies, yet, Schaefer Funeral Home did such a fantastic job that I must make this review. Our family had to deal with two losses the weekend before Christmas. They handled these losses with such short notice and with such care and attention. I cannot stress enough they weren't trying to nickel and dime us. They were so caring and helpful. They were able to accommodate all of our wishes. I never want to deal with another loss, but now I know exactly where to hold arrangements if needed (god for bid). I cannot thank the staff (Brittany, Pat, etc) for all their help.
aleyah lovet★★★★★a year ago
This company is a family run, caring business. They worked with our budget and were 40% less expensive than other funeral parlors but the quality and attention we received was exceptional. I cannot stress enough how amazing they were, not once, but twice. My mother’s funeral was fit for a queen and they handled my brother’s passing with compassion and kindness. I hope you never need to call them but I guarantee if you do you will receive true kindness, compassion and they will not look to take all your money like so many of these greedy businesses that take advantage of you at the lowest point in your life. I hope this helps.
Diana Prano★★★★★2 years ago
Losing a loved one is never easy, but the compassionate and professional care we received from Stephanie at Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home made an incredibly difficult time more bearable. Stephanie was kind, soft-spoken, and incredibly understanding, guiding us through every step of my sister’s funeral arrangements with warmth and patience. She made us feel comfortable and supported, which meant the world to us. On the day of the wake, Michelle ensured that everything was perfect. Her attention to detail and dedication made the space feel welcoming and peaceful for those who came to pay their respects. The funeral home itself was spotless, beautifully arranged, and provided a cozy, comforting atmosphere. I cannot recommend Daniel J. Schaefer Funeral Home enough for their professionalism, kindness, and the genuine care they show to grieving families. Thank you, Stephanie and Michelle, for your compassion and for making such a difficult time a little easier.
Susan Manoukis★★★★12 months ago

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How honors are coordinated

Military funeral honors are guaranteed at no cost for any veteran discharged under conditions other than dishonorable. The funeral home arranges the honors detail by contacting the deceased's last unit or the nearest active-duty installation of the appropriate branch and submitting the DD-214 to verify eligibility.

For requests less than 72 hours from service time, families can call the Department of Defense's expedited honors line at 1-877-MIL-HONR (1-877-645-4667). See the full honors protocol.

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Estate settlement is the next chapter for veteran families.

DIC, survivor pension, and VA educational benefits run alongside probate, life-insurance claims, and account retitling. EverSettled guides veteran families through every step at no cost.

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