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Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home

750 Main Street South · Southbury, CT 06488

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Veteran Services

From the home's own description

“The funeral homes offer specialized services to honor deceased veterans who served honorably in the U.S. Armed Forces, including assistance with obtaining and draping a burial flag. Robert B. Bailey, president-emeritus, served in the U.S. Air Force.”

Veteran services at Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home

Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home in Southbury, CT supports veteran families with military funeral arrangements. In its own description, the home mentions military funeral honors and flag presentation. On-site amenities include chapels, suited to flag presentation and honors ceremonies. Published pricing lists $6,370 for basic burial and $4,320 for direct cremation. Veterans may qualify for county or federal allowances toward these costs. It has a 5.0 rating from 91 reviews on Google.

The home lists these veteran-related services: veterans services, green burials, water cremation, and cremation services. Ask the director which of them they arrange directly.

Facilities on site include chapels.

The nearest veterans cemetery that isn't listed as closed is Connecticut State Veterans Cemetery in CT, about 32 miles from Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home. For a burial in a VA national cemetery, the funeral home or the family calls the National Cemetery Scheduling Office at 800-535-1117.

Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home has a 5.0-star rating from 91 Google reviews.

We list about 304 funeral homes in Connecticut. Only some of them name military funeral honors or VA benefits help among their services.

Frequently asked questions

Does Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home publish funeral prices?

Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home has not posted a full price list online. Under the FTC Funeral Rule it must provide itemized pricing on request, so call (203) 264-1991 and ask how VA burial benefits apply.

Where is Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home located, and can it coordinate a veterans cemetery burial?

Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home is located at 750 Main Street South in Southbury, CT. You can reach the home at (203) 264-1991. Staff can coordinate burial with nearby VA national and state veterans cemeteries.

What services does Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home offer veteran families?

Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home provides personalized funeral services, veterans services, green burials, water cremation, motorcycle hearse, and can arrange military funeral honors for eligible veterans.

Does Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home help veterans with VA burial benefits?

In its own description of its veteran services, Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home mentions military funeral honors and flag presentation. Ask the home how VA burial benefits apply to your family.

How do families rate Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home?

Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home holds a 5.0-star rating across 91 Google reviews from local families and veterans.

What sets Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home apart

  • Offers green burials with Green Burial Council certified products and formaldehyde-free embalming.
  • Provides water cremation services.
  • Features a motorcycle hearse for unique funeral processions.
  • Staff includes certified celebrants and celebrant trainers for personalized services.
  • Matthew R. Bailey, President, was named American Funeral Director Magazine's Funeral Director of the Year in 2021.
  • Jodie Vogt is a state-approved Practical Examiner for the Connecticut Board of Examiners of Embalmers and Funeral Directors.

Military and veteran services listed

★Veterans Services

Burial and cremation services

Burial

  • · Green Burials

Cremation

  • · Water Cremation
  • · Cremation Services

On-site facilities

· Warm and Comfortable Offices
· Viewing Rooms
· Chapels
· Limousines
· Hearses

Affiliations and specialties

Industry affiliations

  • · Connecticut Funeral Directors Association
  • · National Funeral Directors Association
  • · Cremation Association of North America
  • · International Cemetery, Cremation and Funeral Association
  • · Academy of Professional Funeral Service Practice
  • · Insight Institute
  • · British Institute of Embalmers-North American Division
  • · Wallingford Rotary Club

Specialties

  • · Green Burials
  • · Water Cremation
  • · Motorcycle Hearse
  • · Veterans Services
  • · Celebrant Services

Branches of service mentioned

Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home's description of its services mentions these branches:

What families have said

Up to five Google reviews of Carpino and Bailey Funeral Home, shown as written. Reviews that mention veterans, military service, honors, a flag or a cemetery come first, then the highest-rated.

“During probably the most challenging and heartbreaking time of our lives, the team at Carpino — especially Daisy and Jayson — were truly a blessing to our family. From the very first conversation to the final moments of my dad’s services, they treated us with such compassion, patience, and genuine kindness. Planning a wake and funeral for someone you love is overwhelming, but Daisy and Jayson made everything feel manageable. They were incredibly understanding, attentive to every detail, and always available to answer questions or simply offer reassurance. After going back and forth over different decisions, even changing our minds throughout the process, we never felt rushed or like "a customer". They honored my dad with dignity and grace, and the services were beautiful. Our family will always be grateful for the warmth and professionalism they showed us during that time. If you are looking for a funeral home that truly cares about your family and the details that go into planning such a challenging day, I cannot recommend them enough. Daisy and Jayson are extraordinary people who took every step to ensure my sister, mom, and I felt comfortable with our decisions and did not have to worry about any extra stress. Thank you again for everything you have done!”
Alexandra Mills★★★★★a week agoVet-related
“My experience with Carpino Funeral Home has exceeded all my expectations. Daisy and Elizabeth were (and continue to be) incredibly supportive with their amazing stewardship of the process: partnering at every turn, offering guidance, expertly coordinating with the hospital, crematorium, church, cemetery, obituary, etc., which was a tremendous relief during a very sad time. They skillfully guided me through all of the arrangement decisions and ensured that even the smallest of details were executed flawlessly. It also touched our family’s heart that so many members of the Carpino organization (including the owner and his wife) were present at the memorial to guarantee execution a truly beautiful mass and graveside service for our loved one. I can’t endorse Carpino Funeral Home highly enough—every team member has proven to be sensitive, warm and knowledgeable—they are consummate professionals. Our heartfelt thanks and appreciation.”
kacky5★★★★★2 months agoVet-related
“I was very impressed with the care I received during a very difficult time. I am so grateful to Carpino funeral home. They made themselves available for questions. They walked me through the details of the services they offered with patience and sensitivity. I could not have had a more positive experience. I would definitely recommend Carpino to others.”
Susan McNeil★★★★★4 months agoVet-related
“During a very difficult time, it was incredibly comforting to know that Carpino Funeral Home was there to support us every step of the way. They consistently went above and beyond. Whenever I or a family member had a question, we were met with a prompt response and the reassuring words: “We will take care of that.” The staff responded to calls and inquiries immediately—no matter how small the concern or how often we reached out. That kind of care meant the world to us. My family truly feels that Carpino Funeral Home helped guide our mother with compassion and dignity on her final journey.”
Mary Fee★★★★★5 months ago
“This is the place to go to find the most caring compassionate people. From the beginning of making my parents feel that all of their needs were met until their death, Sahara, Jayson and Daisy were all there to answer any questions and take care of everything. Our family highly recommends Carpino to be there for you. Thank you for all that you do.”
Susan Belsky★★★★★5 months ago

How to request military funeral honors

By law (10 U.S.C. § 1491), an eligible veteran's funeral can include, on request, an honors detail of at least two service members who fold and present the U.S. flag to the family and play Taps. The funeral director usually makes the request and will need the veteran's DD214 or other discharge papers.

VA suggests asking at least 48 to 72 hours before the service. More on what honors include and how to request them.